Friday, November 5, 2010

Poppa Camp

Boys want to be men. It's that simple. They aspire to be men and we aspire for them to be (one day, but not tooo soon) as well. My Benjamin is so blessed to have great men in his life, men of many different talents and skill sets.

Paul is an amazing fixer, problem solver. He will try to fix anything himself first before resorting to hiring it out. He also is a whiz on the computer, seriously a natural problem solver. LOVE that about him. My dad on the other hand has a different skill set. He's a cowboy, a musician, a radio technician, works with his hands. He's got a wide array of useful and very manly skills. We got the idea of how fun it would be to teach our boys these skills and not let them just rest on the men. Paul tries to teach B here and there and in organic, everyday settings. But Poppa lives hours away and the organic way just isn't happening. So, we set aside a weekend. Maybe an annual weekend (we hope???), to let Poppa teach the boys some important manly things. Funny, because Paul and Ryan wanted to be there to learn too!!!

I was very impressed when I saw the wide array of things on the agenda for the boys!!

  • bow shooting, as in arrows and a target
  • How to drive a manly riding lawnmower (even the men couldn't wait for this one. Dad's own like a Royals Royce in lawn mowers, HA!!)








funny to me how almost everything the boys did required ear plugs!!



  • horse saddling, shoeing, and of course, riding









  • cutting down a tree basics (with a chain saw!!! Ack!) and then hauling it all off in a wheel barrel









LOVE this picture!!









  • ready for this one? Guns. Shooting. Safety. Seriously manly stuff here (and a mother's nightmare!)











okay, is everything about this picture not wrong????? That sweet little innocence 5 year old face holding a RIFLE???? WRONG I tell you!!!!















  • Scavenging, as all boys do naturally, I think
  • How to eat Mexican food like a man
  • They watched a old "boy" movie called "Savage Sam"
  • While movie watching they enjoyed root beer floats.
  • Poppa had some cool boy books to read to the boys at bedtime, but I think only Benjamin made it to that point.
Fun, fun, seriously manly, fun times for these boys. I'm so proud of my B who wants to be a wise, strong, adventuresome, and brave man one day! He has so many aspirations, that we can't keep up with them. He wants to solve all the world's problems when he become an adult. Some on the list include: inventing useful things like flying cars, magic and amazing kitchen gadgets, finding a cure for cancer. He wants to study sharks and be a marine biologist. The list goes on and on and is literally added to every single day. It makes me smile to hear him dream with no adult-like-reality in the mix. We let him dream.

I truly can't wait to see what God will do his life. I know He has a great purpose for Benjamin, as it was so amazing how he made it here in the first place, defeating all odds.

Thanks to the MEN in his life who invest in B and pray for him and want him to be a mighty warrior in the army of God!! B can't wait until next year's camp, Poppa!!! He wanted me to tell you to make sure guns were included though...his favorite part!

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Coupons! Oh how I love thee!!!

Paul and I have been "couponing" now for about the last 4 months. What started out as a little stressful and totally overwhelming has turned into a fun game we look forward to on the weekends. Seriously. We have stocked up on all things nonperishable, as well as paper goods and toiletry items.

It's gotten to the point where we have well over a year's supply of toiletry items, most of which we either paid 25 cents for, got for free, or even made money on it. For example, on Monday I went to CVS and they PAID me $2 to get 2 tubes of Colgate toothpaste. I got a bag of candy corn for free. I got mascara for $1 a week before, the good kind. We get free razors, body wash, deodorant, toothpaste, toothbrushes, floss, etc, etc. Last week I could have gotten 6 free bottles of Loreal nail polish, but couldn't seem to get to the store. It was a crazy, out of town week. I like free stuff!

Anyway, for those of you who might be interested in saving a little money, I put together a little coupon help sheet for a friend and thought I'd share with all my friends. I LOVE saving money!!!! It is addicting!! Ihope someone finds this helpful!


Here are a few useful things that helped us when starting to coupon:

The Biggies

1) The Grocery Game

http://www.thegrocerygame.com/

This sight is where Terri does all the matching work for you! She lists the sales with Sunday paper coupons, digital coupons and printable coupons. She sometimes even gives links for other coupons. She gives you a final price of what each item would cost after all possible discounts (including possible double and triple coupons). VERY helpful!!!

2) Shop at Kroger

They allow you to combine digital coupons loaded onto your Kroger card with manufacturers coupons. They also triple any manufacturer’s coupon up to $0.30 and double anything up to $0.50. This allows for TONS more money saved! Some people say the only place you can save money at is Walmart, but Paul and I totally disagree! Walmart does have low prices on some things, but not all. When you are only buying what is on rock bottom prices, plus your dairy and produce, you are saving a ton of money.

3) The Grocery Shrink

http://groceryshrink.com/

Angela at the Grocery Shrink is as extreme as they come…like reusable toilet paper!! Oh…yes…they …do!! I’m no where near that extreme, but she does have TONS of great ideas! She encourages a mostly paperless kitchen, making your own cleaning products and stocking your pantry to the point where you are planning your meals around what you’ve bought on sale instead of buying what you need based on your menu. She has an e-book that gives way more detail, but if you subscribe to her newsletter she gives you all the cleaning product recipes for free! She swears you can shop spending only $50/person in your family/month. For our family of 4 that equates to $200. I really don’t see how that’s possible, but hey, if I could even lower my bill by $150-200 a month I’d be thrilled!! Think of what that would equate to at the end of the year!! She says take your first three months and don’t cut your budget, but use the extra to stock up on everything you can. In three months we stocked up our pantry, our freezer, looking for meat on sale and had a year’s worth of toiletry items that we got mostly for free. Seriously! We’re talking top of the line razors, deodorant, body wash, feminine hygiene items (not free but VERY cheap), shaving cream, make-up, etc.


Some other great sights for reference:

http://thekrazycouponlady.com/

This is a very useful sight where she lists the deals for each store (not Kroger, but most others). This is a great sight to go to if you don’t want to buy every list for every store from The Grocery Game. I usually look over Walgreens and Target here since I don’t buy their list on The Grocery Game.

Here are some similar sights as well…

http://www.becentsable.net/

http://www.passionforsavings.com/

So, this is how we set it all up. We started by reading the info on The Grocery Game, The Grocery Shrink and a 10-step post tutorial from The Krazy Coupon Lady you can find here: http://thekrazycouponlady.com/beginners/ This information was so valuable!

So, after we made ourselves familiar with the process we decided to give it a test run. What a flop the first week was!! I could have quit after the store being out of what was on sale and me being not as organized as I had originally thought I was. Paul made me stick with it though, and with his immense help we figured this process out. It really is like a game and we actually look forward to it every weekend! Call us dorks if you will!

So here’s what our process looks like:

1) All week take e-mails that come into my in-box for coupons and either print them or load them to my Kroger card. I usually do this once during the week and it takes all of 10 minutes. Most of the time those coupons are doubles with your printed coupons, so you can really get great savings! Kroger will take a digital and a printed coupon together for the same item. They wills till double or triple the coupon. We get so many free things this way!

Couponmom.com will send you weekly e-mails with a link to cellfire (digital going onto your Kroger card), coupons.com (printable) and a few other printable sites. There’s also a site called shortcuts.com that send weekly e-mails with printable and digital coupons. Remember that the digital can be combined with the printed for double savings!!

2) On Thursday I make my menu based upon what I have in my freezer and pantry. It’s fun being creative. Add anything I need to the grocery list. That list should be minimal after your three month stock up phase.

3) On Saturday night The Grocery Game lady comes out with her lists. Go down the list and check the items that you might want to buy or stock up on for the future. The goal is to buy things before you need them and buy multiples so that you don’t have to buy them in a pinch at full price.

4) After we narrow our list of what we want, then we pull out the coupon binder!! This is a big-ole binder with page protector sleeves and dividers for each week. We get 4 papers each week (Krazy Coupon Lady will tell you why!) and we sort them and slide them into these page protectors for easy viewing. NO CUTTING yet! The reason for this is that The Grocery Game lady tells you what coupon to use by the date. You just flip through the binder to that date and find your coupon easily. I also keep a small accordion coupon filer for coupons I printed off the web or ones I had floating without a home.

5) We match the coupon she says we need with the coupon we have. If it’s not a Sunday coupon that she’s talking about then it might be one they printed for you at the register, one that you loaded to your Kroger card digitally or one she will send you to another sight to print. She has codes for these and we learned them after one week. Easy. It helps if you’ve already printed the coupons off the web you’re interested in earlier in the week. Sometimes they go away.

It helps to have two accounts on these sights. Do one for your hubby and one for you both linked to the same Kroger card. This will allow you to load multiple coupons.

6) As we’re going through finding the coupons for items we’re buying for the week or for stocking up on for later, we stick that coupon in either the Kroger or CVS envelope. CVS is our next favorite store. We come away with TONS of free items every week, sometimes they even PAY us for what we get. We make money!! It is a rush, people!!

7) So before we leave home we have these things all organized:

  • The sales add for the paper for each store we’re headed to
  • The envelopes of coupons for each store.
  • The grocery list (noted with which items we’re using coupons and how many we have to buy)
  • A clipboard and pencil
  • In my wallet I make sure I have my CVS card and Kroger card. I also keep my Extra Care Bucks from CVS in my wallet so I never forget to use them. They have also been printing a coupon every week at CVS for $5 off a $20 purchase. This purchase is pre-coupon of course! Now they also have a coupon machine in the store that will print you random coupons. Today I got a bag of candy corn for free. This is where you really start to make money! Love it!

I hope this helps a little. Let me know if I can answer any questions for you or help you get going. I'd love to help you like friends helped me! Happy saving!!!

Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Camping Plan A and Plan B




This past weekend we had BIG plans! We planned to go to Dinosaur Valley to go camping. Great fun! However, after much planning back and forth and agonizing over dates, etc, by the time we called to reserve they only had one campsite left instead of the two that we needed!!! BOO!

We decided instead to go to Lake Mineral Wells with our friends the Hamms.





Plan A for our trip went as planned so far...
Left Thursday morning and had lunch with Tyler and Kristi at school. Visited antique stores along the way in Weatherford. Believe it or not, our kids love this! Finally, make our way to the park to set up camp. When we arrived we had double good news. One, the burn ban had been lifted so we could have a camp fire!!! Woo Hoo! (Benjamin said God had answered his prayers in this! LOVE when things like that happen that increase their growing faith!) 2. THis dream campsite that we wanted was available. We got it!





We had fun climbing rocks, cooking under the stars, playing with fire...boys! It was a ton of fun. Then night time came. This is where plan A began to blur into no plan at all.
It was hot. It was hotter than you'd hope for an end of September camping trip. We had a hard time getting to sleep. We were sleeping on the ground and were uncomfortable. After about 2 hours of sleep attempt things started to unravel slowly as the hours passed.

12:00 - Startled by a loud sound. Both sit up in bed. What's that? Sounds like our cooler! Raccoons!!!

1:00 - Cait wakes up and says she's scared. Comfort her, back to bed.

2:00 - Wake up with water falling on my face. It's RAINING!! The rain tarp! How does that thing work again???? Half asleep-grumpy-kid whining-married couple arguing-attempt to throw that tarp on the right way was futile. We tried and tried until the rain stopped. We opted to just go back to bed. Probably not the best choice. Note the time though....

3:00 - I wake up. NO!!!! I can't have the sudden urge to go potty!!! NO!!! Get in car drive 1/4 mile to bathroom in pajamas. Sit in car in front of bathrooms visualizing the News broadcast the next night of what happened to a young mom in a state park bathroom in the middle of the night! Get some courage and run int he bathroom. Drive back to campsite trying not to wake family.

4:00 - Again....find water on face. This time it is because kids wake me up yelling that it's RAINING!! This time harder. Rain tarp attempt #2. This time mildly successful and less sinful of previously mentioned married couple. Trying to protect the identities here!

5:00 - NO!!! Not again!! Yes, sudden urge to go to the bathroom again!!! I never wake int eh night to go potty!!!! ONLY when camping. Drive to bathroom again in pajamas. Drive back to campsite and crash.

7:00 - wake up and know that the only redeeming thing at this moment is that there is coffee made over campfire waiting for me int eh near future. THis gives me confidence to start the day.

8:00 - make breakfast in the rain.

8:30 - eat breakfast in the rain. Listen to children whine. Attempt to help hubby in his speech to said children about the joys of camping even in the rain.

9:00 - official ushering in of plan B!!

We spent the rest of the day there at the camp and then I promise you we packed up just. in. time! We decided to camp our second night at the Hamm's house instead of them joining us in the rain and muck and heat and humidity. I think we made the right choice. As we drove out the park the bottom of the clouds gave way and...whoosh...pouring rain for the next 24 hours. FUN...fun that we missed it that is!


































We had a great time "camping" at the Hamm's new place! The kiddos slept in sleeping bags in the game room, swam, jumped on the trampoline and rode scooters in the rain...the adults talked, and talked...drank wine, drank coffee, talked, played Uno Attack...fun. We even made smores on the grill! Good time with good friends!




























SMORES!!!!











Putting smores on the grill



They turned out pretty good. Some got a little burnt, like B's here. It looks like chocolate but it's not! Thus the pouty face!!! HA!!








We LOVED our camping trip!!! Plan A and Plan B!!!! Aren't good friends SUCH a gift from God??!!!!!

Our Silhouette




We bought a new toy a while back and we are having so much fun with it! It's called a Silhouette, and is a lot like a Cricut if you've heard of that. This is different in that it hooks right up to your computer and you use images there instead of buying expensive cartridges. This is WAY cheaper!!

Anyway, look what we cut out of vinyl. You know, that stuff you buy and rub on your walls? Not permanent, just clinging to your wall!











This verse was on our wedding invitations. I love it! God is so faithful!




The silhouette also cuts paper, iron transfers, etc. The possibilities are endless!


This was not a paid endorsement

:-)